Wednesday, December 19, 2018

Getting Rid of Toxic People and Things in your Life



Hello loves, as we approach the New Year there are some things that I have been thinking about. I wanted to share my thoughts with you guys on here. Your health-physically and mentally is so important. It is important to take care of your body and free your mind. Eliminate toxic people, if they themselves distance themself away from you, let it be. If someone is constantly playing mind games with you, being super clingy, controlling or mentally draining-LEAVE THEM ASAP! This does not just apply to dating-I mean family and friend relationships. If you always have to question what you mean to someone, then the answer is clearly nothing. Some people have their own things that they're dealing with, but it never gives anyone an excuse to abuse your mind. Use your voice and your power to do amazing things. People definitely come and go and they most certainly can switch it up on you in a heartbeat. If people are making promises to be there for you and they bail, they are not loyal. No relationship-whether it be family, friends, or boyfriend/girlfriend should be one sided, it is absurd and unhealthy. Please protect yourself, love freely and happily-be nice to others, but always have your guard up. Some people wear masks, but underneath-they are definitely not who they say they are. That definitely goes for family too. Relationships are sacred, but not everyone values them or carries the same ethics or principals. Blood is not always thicker than water, for some it is, but not in my case. 

I also want to let you know that if you have ANYONE or multiple people in your life that are clingy or possessive please exit that relationship. My experience with people is mutual-obviously that is life, one minute it's up then it's down. I'm thankful for my parents and my siblings. I also really love you guys. You're so close to my heart. Life goes on, sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Be thankful for everything and everyone that you have in your life. Keep smiling and lots of good virtue shall come your way:)

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